John Mayer Twitter lies caused Break up?

Sunday, November 1, 2009

John Mayer Twitter lies caused the break up?


According to momsword's article, the beloved tabloid Star Magazine, people who are claiming to be friends Jennifer Aniston apparently said that she finished the affair after discovering John Mayer, 31, who spent hours on Twitter, despite telling her he was too busy to get in touch with her.

The pair started dating in April 2008, but have broken up several times. However, they appeared inseparable at the Oscars last month.
A source claimed Aniston decided Mayer was not committed enough to her and called time on their romance having found hourly updates on his Twitter page.

The source said: “He didn’t even deny [writting on Twitter] it. He knew he was avoiding her. So when she called him on it and ended things, he just said OK, and that he was sorry it didn’t work out.

“He took the break-up like a man.”

All these news reports can't see it but the break up wasn't caused by any "Twitter Debacle". Jennifer Aniston can't recognize it but John Mayer is not interested on dating her anymore. In every break up there are always 2 characters involved, The suspect and The Victim.
The suspect doesn't care - whatever pleading the other party does, he/she doesn't care because he's not interested with her anymore.
On the other hand, The victims always get the sad ending. They felt betrayed by the other party (suspect). It's a pity but this happens in the real world

How to avoid it?
On this case we clearly see which one is the victim. To avoid unnecessary heartache always remember what Matthew Mcconaughey said on the movie Ghosts of Girlfriends Past: "The power of the relationship belongs to the one who cares less". Believe me, you'll feel better if you don't let yourself in the bottom of a relationship.



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